Use your hands and your mouth to give your partner pleasure. Lots of hugs. Massage. If you don’t want penetration, try watching each other m**turbate. Libido is in your head. Eat properly, cut out junk. Lots of soy products. No sugar or sodas. Cut out wheat. Reduce salt and meat. Get fit. Read sexy books, watch sexy movies. Have fun.

I hope this helps..And remember, Sex isn’t everything.. There are so many things you can do as a couple. You will meet the right guy. Not all are after sex..even though it seems so.

eat a lot of soy and then more soy your drive will return